Many Couples Have No Idea What They Expect From A Relationship

Many couples have no idea what they expect from a relationship. It just so happens that what women want often differs from what men want. Do you know what you want in a relationship? It takes time to think this through so don’t expect to get what you want unless you ask for it. In other words, you and your significant other need to have many conversations about what you both want out of your relationship.

By having these sensitive, sometimes delicate discussions, you will discover whether the expectations are reasonable and achievable and, if so, look for ways to continue talking about it. How are you going to know what your partner’s wants and needs are if you don’t ask? How can you know what yours are if you don’t put them under a microscope and analyze them? One way to begin the process for understanding the other person’s wants and needs is to perceive how the other person feels. In other words, put yourself in his or her shoes, and learn what triggers positive and negative emotions.

Pay attention to the ways they show their affection toward you. Does your significant other have a tendency to compliment you on what you do versus using condescending words? Does your partner like to buy something for you or pay for your lunch or dinner or try to do something special for you such as grocery shopping or taking the garbage out?

Does your partner want to spend time with you and enjoy heart-to-heart conversations? Ask yourself the same questions so you can communicate your needs as well. What makes you feel happy in your relationship?